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Couples Therapy Tips & Techniques for Therapists

Couples therapy techniques, communication exercises, and relationship interventions from licensed couples therapists. Gottman Method, EFT, and other evidence-based approaches.

8 Worksheets on Communication Skills

Active Listening Worksheet https://www.therapistaid.com/worksheets/active-listening.pdf How to Apologize Worksheet https://www.therapistaid.com/worksheets/how-to-apologize.pdf Assertive…

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3d ago · 3 ♥

Worksheets for Relationship Issues using ACT

This is a comprehensive 19 pages of worksheets with Acceptance and Committment Therapy on relationship issues, provided free by the author on his website.…

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3d ago · 1 ♥

Elisha Goldstein - How to Live a Mindful, Present, and Fulfilling Life (Podcast)

Leading with Genuine Care podcast by Rob Dube. This week’s conversation with psychologist and founder of The Mindful Living Collective, Elisha Goldstein, Ph.D., is jam-packed with nuggets of…

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3d ago · 0 ♥

NY Times: Why a Woman’s Sex Life Declines After Menopause

(Hint: Sometimes It’s Her Partner) The author explains that "While women traditionally have been blamed when sex wanes in a relationship, the research shows that, often, it’s the health of a woman’s…

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NY Times Article on Helping Couples Discuss Money

This was an interesting article about couples, vagueness and money. It presents some good suggestions for how to help couples discuss money together.…

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International OCD Foundation

This website offers a helpful space for those struggling with obsessive-compulsive disorder. It offers many links, resources, and opportunities to either get involved or get help in the ongoing fight…

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3d ago · 0 ♥

Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love

By Dr. Sue Johnson This book is a layperson's introduction to Emotionally Focused Therapy. This is for individuals or couples who want to learn more about the idea of interdependence vs.…

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Comprehensive Introduction to OCD

Learn what OCD is, and how it is diagnosed and treated on this helpful website. It may be useful to share this resource with clients and family members with someone in their life who has OCD: …

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3d ago · 0 ♥

Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself

By Melody Beattie This is a pivotal book in the world of codependency. I would recommend it to both clients and clinicians. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00BS027FC

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3d ago · 0 ♥

6 Books for Client Engaging with a Narcissist

Here are some books I recommend to clients: Disarming The Narcissist by Wendy Behary Safe People: How to Find Relationships that are Good for You and Avoid Those That Aren't by Cloud and Townsend …

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3d ago · 0 ♥

Can Love Last?: The Fate of Romance over Time

This really takes responsibility for the unscripted freedom of both thought and action in long term relationships. In his book he basically argues that romance doesn't diminish; it becomes more…

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The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert

By John M. Gottman I recommend Gottman for anybody who wants to understand the amount of times you need to reinforce acts of love vs. criticism and correction in a relationship. …

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The Attachment Theory Workbook: Powerful Tools to Promote Understanding, Increase Stability, and Build Lasting Relationships

By Annie Chen This is a great workbook for understanding attachment style, with practical handouts. https://www.amazon.com/dp/1641523557

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Couples Satisfaction Index

[Physical material available — see your files for: Couples Satisfaction Index]

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Positive Negative Relationship Quality Scale

[Physical material available — see your files for: Positive Negative Relationship Quality Scale]

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Revised Dyadic Adjustment Scale Scoring

[Physical material available — see your files for: Revised Dyadic Adjustment Scale Scoring]

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The Couples Satisfaction Index: Self Measures

[Physical material available — see your files for: The Couples Satisfaction Index: Self Measures]

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Relationship Scales Questionnaire with Score

[Physical material available — see your files for: Relationship Scales Questionnaire with Score]

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3d ago · 0 ♥

Romantic Partner Conflict Scale

[Physical material available — see your files for: Romantic Partner Conflict Scale]

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The 5 Love Languages

[Physical material available — see your files for: The 5 Love Languages]

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3d ago · 0 ♥

Excellent PDF on the Cycle of Narcissistic Abuse

Here is an informative PDF with visuals created and shared with us by Tanya Gaum, and described by her as a labor of love. Enjoy! Source: https://www.tanyagaum.com/cycleofnarcissisticabuse

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Boundary-Setting Through Values Clarification in Codependent Couples

Use ACT values worksheets to have each partner independently identify their core values, then facilitate a structured conversation about how codependent behaviors conflict with those values. This…

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This Simple Joy Practice Can Totally Change Your Day (and Life!) (Video)

Our brain is wired toward routine so much so that we stop seeing the people in our lives and when we do, it's usually because something is wrong. This has a negative impact on our sense of…

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